You do not have to tell their whole life.
You need words you can stand up and say.

You have been asked to speak. Every memory feels important, the page is empty, and “say something from the heart” has not helped you begin.

Build a speech around real memories and the minutes you have actually been given. Four working sheets guide the calls, story choices, draft and rehearsal. Eight focused chapters and sixteen annotated fictional speeches show different situations without asking you to borrow someone else’s life.

• Gather memories from people who knew them.
• Shape an opening, two stories and a close.
• Time the speech aloud and prepare a readable page.
• Give a spare copy to someone who can finish if you cannot.

Ask the organiser for your speaking time. Then begin the memory sheet with one person you can call.

A practical writing guide with fictional examples. It does not promise emotional readiness, comfort or relief from grief, and does not plan the funeral.